Saturday, October 20, 2007

After a while...

Ive been here for 1 1/2 years and many things I have learn. I dont know where to start but...

Friendship is a special bond God created. We can be friend to anyone in the world no matter who or what that persons are. Whether we have seen their face or not, we still consider them friends even after just saying 'Hello!' on the street or chatting in messenger or irc. But...

What is friendship? What is true friendship? Well, I dont know how to answer that but I do know this...

  • A true friend will say 'No' to you when you are about to do something stupid or bad.
  • They will scold you if you did bad things.
  • Urge you to do good deeds to others and yourself.
  • Fighting and misunderstanding doesnt exist in this relationships. Everything is just a joke.
  • Put you in their 'Important People' list. You are 2nd. 1st is FAMILY.
  • Honest, they will tell you what you did is wrong.
  • They will accept your criticism about them with open heart, and you should too.
I think that is all I know about what is true friendship. Sometimes being away too long and never talk to you is not a sign that you are not their true friend. A friend should understand each other. Know what to say and when to say something that would hurt or touch their feelings is important.

Cherish them but not worship them. Some have forgotten that family is much more important than true friends.You can have 1, 2, 5 or 6 true friends but a family can never be replace.

A friend can be replace. But your mother, father, brother and sister? Never.
- Socrates
Find them, use them, but dont be fooled by them. They are your enemy and your friends. - Bismarck